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White Boy Special

Posted: July 22, 2011 in Alpha, Game, Personal Experience
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have you ever found yourself in a place so different from any place you’ve experience before? This is one of those places.

“Dude it will be unlike anything youve experienced before!” he said. My friend was trying to convince me to join him at a dance party taking place out at a secluded beach bar club out by the airport. And we all know nothing lives out by barren waste land airports.

“Alright I’ll go.” I gave in. “Trust me dude you’re gonna love it.” He reassured me.

We arrived around 12:30 and the place was still wasn’t popping; i was having doubts. The place was made up of crusty old men, ugly woman and guys who look like they would take your wallet as soon as they see it. After a few drinks the place started to get interesting. The DJ wasnt the best but the girls were getting warmed up. It was around this time that i said “fuck it. I’m gonna have a good time.” Finally a good DJ came on and all hell broke loose.

I dont know how much North Americans know about Whining, grinding and daggering but there was some serious dancing going on up in this place. The music is so loud everything vibrates, including your clothes. your ears hum from the constant assault of deafing music. Now I know why it’s out by the airport.

By 1am I was loving this place. Most guys just sat around looking rough and maybe slightly bobbing their heads. Not us, we were getting in with the girls. In a place like this you don’t even have to talk to the girls. All you do is go up behind them for a second, grab their waist and put them against you. Sit back and enjoy the ride.

Girls were crazy to say the least. It was a remind white girls can’t move their ass for shit and black girls work it like they’re waxing the hood of a car. My friend and I had these two girls on us when he yells in my ear,  “Dude!!! Your the only white guy in this whole place! Your the fucking guy!” For the rest of the night I tried finding another white guy just to say I wasn’t the only one… But I was. I stood out like a confident swore white thumb. I’ve been in the minority plenty of times but not when its 300 people and you. I’m not complaining, I had a blast!

Number closing in a place where you cant even hear yourself think is impossible. But holy hell it was good time and a hell of an experience.

Swaggerific I’m just so swaggerific

I hadn’t brought out all the guns in a while but tonight I was going hard… Not going home. I was swagged out; dressed to kill. A friend of mine was going to introduce to a Playboy Bunny down visiting. If I wanted to try crossing something off my bucket list I would need to be on my A game. I also had one of my best wingmen with me.

That little extra bit of effort made a big difference. I was getting pulled over by random girls for pictures and saying they know me when they really didn’t. Half way through the night I realized something that may have been stunting my pickup game for a while now. I haven’t been focusing on some sort of closing. I realize I probably don’t show enough interest and I don’t number close. Talk about rookie mistake. The worst part is I even opened two different girls. One at the bar and one with the help of a female wing. What was I thinking?!

My friend and i were headed back to the car around 1:30 when he made eye contact with two hood rat looking chicks. He was debating whether he wanted to go back and talk to them. I  knew exactly the kind of reassurance he needed. We went back, he chatted them up and they came with us in the car. Game on.
I remember going to high school with one of them so I was able to keep her busy while my mate ran his game. We went and got some fast food and then went down to the beach to eat it. I don’t understand how girls can be hungry at the burger joint but not hungry when we get to the beach 3 minutes around the corner!

My girl was buried in her phone. Like full crackberry addict. If it would have fit up her nose I think she would have sniffed it. My usual game isn’t well calibrated for the hood rats so hold conversation was strained at best. I took her for a walk around the beach showing her some stuff giving my mate time to work his girl. I had paid for this girl’s 2am kids meal, I was gonna do what ever I could to get some action. I tried twice and she wouldn’t have it. Well if she’s not gonna make out with me I’m gonna eat her cheese burger. Models don’t need cheese burgers anyway… Nom nom nom. Shitty 3am food.

My friend wasn’t making any progress either with his girl so we dropped their asses off. After they got out he turns to me and said “Dude the reason you weren’t getting in was cause your girl was on her period.” UGHHHHHH!

No success but considering these two girls were cold approaches at 2am I think we did pretty good. Too bad the Playboy Bunny never showed up.

A Surprise Appearance

Posted: July 14, 2011 in Alpha, Beta, Game, Personal Experience
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I was on my way to the first night of a class I signed up for and I come up the steps and who should be there… One of my past fucks.
Inside my head I’m saying, “Oh fuck. This is gonna be so goddamn awkward. Ughhhh.”
It was one of those moments when I realized why you never intentionally dick-over a girl you’ve fucked. Because if you live in a small country, you are going to see her again.

I was completely off my zen. I knew she took classes but it never clicked she would be in mine. And who was I pared with for the night? You guessed it, her. I hadn’t seen her since an awkward parting.

“Cause I just seem my ex girl standing with my next girl standing with the one that I’m fucking right now” – Drake

Now a few weeks later everything is cool. I keep my frame loose and aloof and she’s usually entertained by the beta dude in the class. Hell the guy number closed her.

The best part was when the teacher asked if we were a couple. After one class I tried asking her to join me for a drink which didn’t work out. But I have it on good information if I keep at it she’ll “open up” again. I’m not spitting good game on a regular so I feel I should get off my fat lazy ass and put a little work in.

Haha I feel bad for the class beta. The aloof indifferent guy is about to swoop in and remind him why nice guys finish last.

In the last class I was paired with this one girl who I knew I should be spitting game to. I didn’t really but I mixed things up a bit so we were closer and more touching was involved in what we were doing. Her eyes said yes… But my mind said no. Sigh* gonna have to make up for it next time with a number close.

Gaming two girls in the same class…Post class drinks at the bar?… I think so. I’m gonna have to play this like a Jedi.

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Welcome Back to the Heat

Posted: July 3, 2011 in Alpha, Game

I’m back in the game. I did what I had to and ended my cold streak. I didn’t want to post anything till I got laid.

 

A friend told me I seem more chilled and relaxed today. Awesome. I don’t need to go into the details but I was out with some friends enjoying the night and I knew this “old friend” was back in town so got talking. Her friend kept asking if I was still cool with her since last time we hooked up (several months ago) and I said I’m cool and I have no problem with her.

I’d been out with my friend and she wasn’t far away so I bid my friend farewell and went to check on this lady friend. I showed up, drank free drinks and chilled. I wasn’t on the drunk level half the club was on so I just did my thing. Fuck it.
We left the club and I did the deed. Mission Accomplished.

 

Now time to build some heat.

Being Your Best Self

Posted: May 24, 2011 in Alpha, Game, Teaching

Do you remember when you first started learning about game? Those first baby steps when all of your conversations were driven primarily by Pick-Up routines and the little gambits you’d learned. You could pick girls up but you’d probably have lacked the interesting lifestyle. As you talk to more woman you probably grew tired of an entire conversation made up of routines. Her responses would be pretty predictable and whats the fun in that? Eventually your game will evolve to the next level.

The first aspect is social dynamics. You’ll practice using less gambits, routines and start creating personal material. Instead of using a canned display-of-higher-value you’ll use a real one telling a woman about your 8 weeks backpacking through Europe. I when I first started using my personal material I noticed a slowdown in how fast I was escalating things. Personalized material is a big step forward but because it’s personal you’re going to have to test what works and what doesn’t work. After a few months you’ll start to notice a nice flow between your material and the “canned” material you still use once and awhile.

The other aspect is the realization that developing an interesting lifestyle is the best way to pick up chicks. You may be able to bed a girl from the club or even after a few dates. But when you bring her into your world and you have no life it’s going to be boring and hard to keep an Alpha frame of mind.

So when you start building an attractive lifestyle you’ll appeal to a demographic of woman. If you like music get in a band, start playing in public. You don’t have to be a rockstar to have groupies. Anything to boost your confidence and make you feel more comfortable in what you enjoy is worth it. Notice how gambits and routines are based on interesting skill sets. Two examples being a magician, or a palm reading.

I’m trying out a few different things just to see what I enjoy. I already Salsa dance on a regular and I want to try one team sport, a form of martial arts, and something form of meditation. If woman or anyone asks what you do and you say “I Salsa dance, do Yoga, play on a volleyball team, weight train and kickbox.” She’s gonna be impresses or at least interested. She may even be able to find something in common or she’s thinking about trying one of those.

If you want to be interesting, do interesting things. It helps if what you choose has a lot of woman or broadens your social circle. A wide range of activities keeps you active, fit, and strong. For me it’s especially good because it will help cut back on my time drinking and smoking. Few woman will be wildly impressed with your awesome drinking skills or how well you can blow a smoke ring.

As a reminder… You don’t have to be the strongest guy in the room; If you can break the strongest-guy’s arm in three places you win. You may not be the best armbreaker in the room but if you have better zen you don’t need to beat him. You may not be the strongest, the best fighter or the most zen but if you have game you can beat them all.

If you aren’t going out and practicing pickup Create attraction through other ways. Build yourself into the best possible version of yourself

“Build it and they will cum.”

First things first; I’m not dead. I’ve just been very irresponsible.
“Often in life when we start getting good at something we stop it. Which is freaking insane!” – K

Thats what I was told when K and I were talking about the blog (Breaking Beta). “Dude you have a talent and your good at it. Don’t stop.” So here I am back publishing my thoughts and stories but I should fill you guys in on what’s been going on.

Not a lot has been happening in life to do with game. I’m just enjoying spending time with my friends and hoping some girl will throw herself at me. Guess what… it hasn’t happened yet. The problem is I don’t feel I have enough material to write about as well. Well this weekend I had two good game runs.

Geez, I haven’t been this plastered in a long time. Goddamned waitress knows how to work me. And my friends aren’t helping either. Some how through my drunken state I manage to keep good awareness of my surroundings. I was talking to a gal friend and she turned to talk to someone else, I noticed she had a friend with her who was standing in the corning talking to nobody. Having picked up my copy of Roosh V’s “Bang” lately I decided to try one of his two basic club openers. Sprinkled with a little sarcasm I open her with “You look like your having the most fun of everyone here!” A little smirk on my face and a smile on hers equals game on. Dropped a few disqualifies, DHV spikes, and even gave her a nickname. Basic stuff but things were looking good. Suddenly a crusty old Limey dude in a Hawaiian shirt tries talking to her noticing my good luck. Thats one thing I hate, guys who don’t have enough balls to open so when they see how friendly she is to you they think it’s an open party. Fuck off!

But what could have destroyed and discouraged a rookie I used to my advantage. “Wow that guy looks totally your type. And his style is awesome.” Disqualify/AMOG him and things are back in my court. But the bugger doesn’t give up easily I’ll give him that. So when she leaves for the bathroom I make a bet with my gal friend (who’s also her friend) that the creepy old dude with try hitting on her again. “Deal. Winner gets a free drink.” A few minutes later the cutie comes back out with that look on my face that said it all. Free drink for me! It showed I know how men work and gives me a chance to get together with the girls again. She apparently has a boyfriend which is why I didn’t go for the number close. Gotta take things slow.

A  guy friend of mine comes over asking for a wing in the back room. My game is on fire tonight so I’m totally down. I find myself in the back room with my friend and two older woman. Not ugly by any length, but just not young either. My friend places a complicated game by saying I’m the most boring person he knows and bla bla bla but by doing so he sparks the girl’s interest. I didn’t believe it could be true but his strategy worked well, if not a bit annoying at first. What makes this game running session so difficult is that this woman is married, and has two kids, and her husband is away. Now she’s good-looking, I would definitely have taken her home but a family makes things a bit more difficult. In my drunk state I’m sure I would have gone home with her if she had invited. But this brings a new aspect to things. I’ve never been presented with an opportunity to sleep with a married woman. It felt very appealing, and I wanted to try it. But after sobering up the next day I’m glad I didn’t. Too bad she wasn’t single or else I would run a lot more direct game.

So stick with me guys… Things are about to get exciting. I’m also going to try using Twitter more often so if you’re interested head over and subscribe. http://twitter.com/#!/BreakingBeta

Another Film Example of Game

Posted: April 16, 2011 in Alpha, Game, Teaching
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After visiting Barcelona a few years back I decided to watch Woody Allan’s Vicky Christina Barcelona. This one scene is a perfect example of an interesting and magnetic man. This is what you should want to be. Perfectly composed, honest and unashamed.

Watch and learn